Sunday, March 9, 2008

baptimatized!

This is what Paxton called it - baptimatized - he says it like John Travolta in Grease when he sings, "It's e-lectrifyin'!" We cracked up.


Last Sunday was a really special day for us. In church Charis asked if she could take communion. She has asked this before, and we always explained that its for a person who believes Jesus and has given Him their life, and its a big decision. We didn't want her doing it just to have a snack, or because we do it. But she has repeatedly asked so many good questions about what Caleb and I believe, and about life, death, and God. She has claimed to love and follow Jesus for some time now. But again, we  assumed this is because she hears us talking about what we believe. 
Last week her and I had a really good conversation about being a follower of Jesus. And I felt she "got it" (best she can at 6 years old). So when she asked to join us in communion, Caleb felt that we shouldn't hold her back from expressing what she believes. She was really cute - looking over at us - excited.
Communion isn't some big ceremony at our church. But she was excited none the less. 
Caleb feels that when a person believes in Jesus, one of the first things she should do is be baptized. So, we asked her if she wanted to be baptized and demonstrate physically what had happened spiritually. She wanted to (she'd wanted to for a while), so we called our families and invited them to my brother's jacuzzi for the baptism. Several of them could come (so last minute) and we had a really fun day celebrating Charis' faith and enjoying each other. 
I have my fears - that she is only believing because we do. That she will have false assurance of salvation. That she will feel she has to be good to make God happy, rather than just be humble and believe. That she will tend toward legalism. That she will not experience sweet communion with God. But I don't have control over these things.  She is her own person before God. And He is good. And I trust Him with her.  

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Today

Paxton was telling me a story about something that happened yesterday, today and tomorrow. He was painfully cute as he was talking, and I just wanted to eat his face off. So when he finished I said,  "I love you yesterday, today and tomorrow!" He said, "Yah, but you love me today the most." 
And that is my life lesson. Be about TODAY. Focus on the moment; be satisfied with what is. Paxton's wisdom helps me.  

Friday, February 22, 2008

a little bit of our life


Cousin Elijah. The name which evokes so many emotions. This kid is awesome. He is four. And we wish we lived closer to him (and his parents). Sister Lydia is a favorite too. Jonas likes to say her name, and I like to hear it.


New friends! We now have a few friends who actually live within 10 minutes of us. (Although we're not abandoning our southernly-dwelling friends.) This picture is taken at Professor Pennypickle's house in Temecula. It is the BEST kid's "museum" I've ever been to. We are definitely going back soon.


This finely-crafted toy, "the claw", ($2 dollars, made in China, from the grocery store) has been an amazing teaching lesson for my kids. I have been trying to teach them about too much stuff and how to be kind to the environment. Well, after this toy broke within 10 minutes of purchase, and then the replacement only lasted one day, my kids were convinced. It's SO cool! They don't want cheep junk, and they're getting the sad reality of cheep labor and deforestation. They now ask me which toys are made in China, and if they are good for the environment. I'm really hoping it lasts. We recently ordered them some fair-trade toys. And plan to do so whenever possible. We're teaching ourselves this lesson as we teach them. I'm all cool with this until I realize it means no more $8 Target shirts for me. I want to buy less, and buy local or fair- trade when I do buy.  


And while we're teaching our kids to take care of the environment, why not teach them to shoot guns too? Especially our 2 year old.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Charis Asparagairus



My hilarious and spritey daughter has started her own blog. Yes, its true. She wanted to; so now there are three Hagen blogs. Why not? She has 2 posts on there so far, and seems like she'll be keeping it up. Much thanks to Amber for leaving the first comment. She was thrilled! If you know Charis, you will not be disappointed with the authenticity of this blog. Get ready to laugh.

You can find her at Charis Asparagairus.
Hallie was the first one to call her this, and it stuck. Its hard to read but is the word asparagus with the word Charis (kinda) thrown in there. It rhymes (kinda).

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Best friend's adventure

We were supposed to meet friends at a class Tuesday @ 11. Everyone was in the car ready to go except Charis. The back seat of the van was pushed down and she couldn't get it up. I tried to help her, but after pulling and pushing every leaver I could find, I decided to call my friend and tell her we wouldn't make the class. But my cell phone said the SIM card wasn't in it. But it was in. So I couldn't call her or Caleb (to help me with both problems). Then as I was trying to get the seat up again Paxton said, "Mom there are 2 men walking up." I turned around to meet an attorney working for my neighbors. He wanted to get the low-down on someone up the street. The bottom line is it freaked me out, and the lack of cell phone use and seat problem didn't help. So I emailed Caleb and asked him to call our home phone ASAP. For some reason he didn't find my situation quite as distressing as I did. But he did help me fix the SIM card problem and told me how to get the seat up (oh, that lever).

Since we missed the class we decided to go on an adventure. You see, I used to be fairly adventurous. In fact, I love wandering around finding new and undisturbed places. But having 3 kids has really put a halt on this hobby, and I have mourned the fact before. But the old Kate is back (that's what I told Caleb).

Since it was lunch time, we did something Pax had been asking for for a while (that I really haven't wanted to do). We got hot dogs at Circle K. It only took forever to pick them out, get ketchup on them, etc. Once we got to the cash register, the lady said someone who had been in there earlier wanted to pay for our hot dogs. He thought we were cute and left money for us! How awesome is that?! So I saved $4. It was a really cool thing, and my kids are still talking about it.

After our healthy lunch, we drove over to Rainbow, the next town up from us. Just the name makes me happy and the old weird signs bring even more joy. Rainbow did not disappoint. It is a tiny town full of nurseries and dirt roads. We had already driven around the nurseries earlier, and this time stopped at the town store. We got water and sat at some picnic tables to drink. It was such a beautiful day and I felt so happy to be there, so I decided we should make up a best friend secret hand shake. My kids were so into that. It was cute.

Then we explored the amazing antique store there. It really was one of the coolest antique stores I'd ever seen. There were treasures everywhere. It is entirely outdoors with this labyrinth lay out. After spending a long time looking around, we decided to walk down to the creek. 

We threw acorns in the water for a while, and Charis climbed this tree that hung over the water (until I got too freaked out). Then we found a spot where we could get closer, and as I was trying to help Jo down there I heard Charis yelp. Then she started running down stream. I realized she has lost one of her (new) pink Crocs down the creek. It was steadily moving further and further away from us. She was so cute trying to stick branches in the water to reach it. I couldn't really help her because I was holding Jonas. She starting crying. It was really picking up speed, and if you looked way down stream you could see the creek went under the road and into ??? (maybe the sewer). We tried running ahead, but it was so far off now that is seemed hopeless. But it finally got stuck in a tree root on the far side of the creek. In an attempt to calm Charis down, I said we could drive up the road a bit and see if there was way to get down to that side of the creek. If she hadn't been so upset I would have been cracking up at the hilarity of the situation.

Now imagine overgrown, wild creek trees and brush and mush. That is what I bush wacked through to get the beloved pink Croc. After traipsing my kids across the road (Charis dramatically hopping on one foot the entire way), we climbed over a small barrier and walked through some crap. I set them on a rock and put Jo in C's lap (which was the scariest part of the day).  I climbed down the boggy slope to the edge of the creek. The shoe was just out of reach, and none of the nearby branches were sturdy enough. So I submerged one of my tennis shoes into the water and saved the Croc! I held it up announcing it's survival and my kids cheered. It was such a hilarious and surreal day. And I got to be the hero.

The end (did anyone actually read all of this?)

Saturday, February 2, 2008

picture update

I haven't been in the mood to blog. Not sure why. But I have so many cute pictures I want to share. So...



Charis' first horse riding experience was a huge success. She went with a special friend, and the little ones got to join in the petting "zoo" fun afterwards.



Jonas is seriously strong.




We had another unschooling international night. Mexican food was on the menu this month. It was a really fun night for the kids and parents. I'll end with my favorite picture from the night...


After being tied together in feather boas, K and I were told we were "now more beautiful!" I'd have to agree with Ella.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Enchanted

Charis and I had a "girl day" yesterday. First of all we got dressed up. Now, for me that means jeans and a nice shirt, for C that means a velvet dress and a tiara. I love my girl, but seriously, how did that happen? We went to see "Enchanted" at the movie theatre. As we were walking up C said, "I love going to the theatre!" As she handed the ticket kid her ticket she giggled and squeaked as he ripped it in two. He laughed and said, looking at her tiara, "going to see Enchanted?" I laughed nervously.



She loved the movie and only had to be told to whisper about 30 times. It is the most ridiculous, adorable, girly movie you could imagine. Perfect for Charis. I was pleasantly surprised actually and enjoyed it a lot. After the film, she decided to spend her chore money on a golden princess dress at the Disney store. And has worn it since, except while eating and playing outside, so she won't mess it up (her decision). After that, we got sushi (at Trader Joes) and ate it at a little table outside. She frequently proclaimed that it was such a fun day. And indeed it was. For me too.



Today Caleb was the award-winning dad when he came home from the hardware store (the only one in town) with a swing! Its banana yellow. And is fabulous.